Something has changed.
The version of yourself
that got you here
needs to be released for where you are going.
I am a transformational coach and psychotherapeutic counsellor based in Bath, working online worldwide in English and Italian. I work with people through life's unmapped passages: the transitions, losses, and moments when who you are no longer holds its shape. I work through conversation, deep inquiry, and imagery, at the place where the practical questions and the deeper ones meet; finding where things became knotted, and beginning, genuinely, to loosen.
The work begins in the space between what has ended and what is not fully formed; where things exist before they are understood, and change become possible through attention, through untangling.
Not a technique, not a method, but an orientation. The slow, careful work of finding the end that, when gently pulled, allows everything else to release.
What brings people here
When everything connects to everything else
Moving through the world where shifts in tone, atmosphere, and unspoken tension are felt immediately and without filter is not oversensitivity, but a deeper way of processing experience. In a culture that values speed and efficiency, there is a quiet loneliness in not being able to skim the surface, always going beneath it by default. When everything connects to everything else, experience forms a continuous web, holding events together in a single field of meaning. But it also means that when one thread tightens, the whole structure responds. The task is to recognise which thread needs attention, and to loosen it without tightening everything else.
A sense of in-between
A sense of in-between: living across cultures, roles, or versions of yourself, yet belonging fully to none, where a quiet undercurrent of something unsettled lingers and brings questions of who you are, who you are becoming, and how you truly inhabit your own life. It is also felt in life's transitions, those threshold moments when something has changed, a relationship, a job, a new phase, and emotionally you are still catching up, unsure and not quite there yet, holding loss and new beginnings side by side, suspended between what was and what is not yet fully formed.
Patterns that hold
There is a clear understanding of why something happens, and yet a persistent sense of being unable to shift it in a way that truly lasts. These are the recurring rhythms of thought, feeling, or behaviour that shape a life: familiar, sometimes comforting, and stubbornly resistant to change. They show up in relationships, in work, in the stories we tell about ourselves, quietly guiding decisions even when we wish they would not. Understanding a pattern is not the same as being free of it. The work is not to dismantle what you are, but to bring enough attention to what is actually happening underneath so that something can begin, genuinely, to shift.
Why Untangling
Because the issues you bring are not separate. Your relationship to your mother, your career transition, your anxiety in conflict, they are not a list. They are a web. Pull one thread and something else tightens. Try to cut through it and you end up more stuck.
Untangling requires seeing the whole system, finding the right starting point, and working with patience and precision. Not force. Not speed. Just careful, sustained attention to what is actually wound together and what happens when you begin, gently, to separate one strand from another.
This is slow work, but it can begin to create change from the very first session. And sometimes shifts are immediate. More often, change unfolds over time. But when something finally loosens, when you find yourself responding differently without trying, when the old pattern simply does not pull as tight, you will feel it. And then we keep going.
who finds their way here
Reflective, perceptive people navigating change : in their relationships, their sense of self, or the life they have built.
They are grappling something unclear, trying to untangle it alone while still performing day to day. And yet, nothing shifts. Now, they feel the need to move beyond knowing, to live transformation in a way that is real, embodied, and deeply felt.
This is the work, the slow untangling that asks for a different kind of attention.
Individuals that when I ask “what does that feel like?” answer “like a knot in my chest” or “like standing with one foot on solid ground and the other in shifting water”
Ther are not being vague, they are being exact. Because this is how their inner world speaks first: not in explanations, but in form. Not in analysis, but in image. And those images are not decorative language layered on top of experience, they are the experience, arriving in its most honest, unprocessed shape.
To notice this is already a kind of intelligence. The image is showing where attention belongs, where something is held, where something is asking not to be solved but to be met.
The first conversation is free, and without obligation.
Tell me a little about where you are and what you are looking for. There are no right answers.
